DO NOT EJACULATE- How To Have Intense Orgasms without EJACULATION

In a previous video I posted a little over a month ago, I addressed the issue of Ejaculation and How men must begin to practice Semen Retention to increase their Energy and Power. I must tell you how overwhelmed I was at the numerous responses from men who had tried Semen Retention in the past and all the wonderful results they got.

Today, in response to many questions from men asking me how to actually do it, Here is a Quick tip that can help.

You must understand that Sex is not a means to end, it was never made to be that way. If you are engaged in Sex simply for the end pleasure of a quickly fading Ejaculation, then you really are missing out on the Divine Power of Sex.

For many men unfortunately, they have been trained to see sex as the gateway to an ejaculation and so they hop in for just that, wanting the ejaculation and wasting their powerful energy.

In this Video I teach you a very powerful technique that you can immediately incorporate to not only practice Semen Retention but to also experience Mind Blowing Whole Body Orgasms.




So you have been off this relationship for quite some time now and you have begun to feel new energy, that undeniable sense of moving on. You are beginning to enjoy your time alone and day by day you are finding ways to let go.
Or so it seems until something reminds you of your ex; A song on the radio, the smell of food, a name in the book you are reading, their picture popped on your Instagram explore feed.
Ahhh the many things that can jerk your memory of them are endless.
So now you are thinking about them and you begin to imagine what could have been.

You may even think you have done wrong for not fighting for this relationship to work and that sick guilty feeling that you may have failed will cause you to want to correct that failure. Cause we all hate to imagine that we failed at something right?
For many people, it is the feeling that they may never find a love like that again that drives them into self lolling and hurt. They consider the number of months or maybe even years that they spent building the relationship and they cannot bring themselves to let an investment like that go to waste.For many others, it is the Sex. The sex was just so good to pass on. They cannot bare to imagine their ex enjoying what they had with someone else.

I will tackle these scenarios in a second post but in this first post, I really am trying to just get you to understand that the question of going back to your ex has more to do with time than anything else.
When a break-up is still fairly fresh in the memory, the mind will continually trick you with endless possibilities of thought.
Understand how the mind operates. You already have stored memory and vital information for it to work with. It is already used to certain thought patterns. The mind isn’t trying to push you to do anything, it is only trying to help you by offering thought ideas from your memory bank to offer a solution for your present pain or distress.

Your mind will present different scenarios you can act upon based on what memories, ideas, thoughts, concepts and beliefs you may hold presently, but your decision will ultimately be on you.
And so know that it will take some time for your mind to do the necessary adjusting to find solutions for you that have nothing to do with your ex.
But not just time in the sense of time passing, actual time invested in created new powerful thought patterns in your memory bank. And the only way to do this is to spend this time away from your ex living your best life so to speak.

When you allow time pass and work patiently with time, you will soon find that what seemed most important isn’t really as important as you thought.
For instance, you may soon realize all the many good things you have learned about yourself thanks to that relationship and you may even begin to say that the time invested in that relationship was worth it because now you know this and that.

Many couples break up and get back together with the hopes of fixing things and this is always wonderful if both parties are fully involved in the process. If getting back together is a decision they are both individually deciding upon and see it as best for them then this is mutual and healthy.

However if one person is forcing a come back and the other wants nothing to do with it, then it is clear there is nothing to fight for. Why be with somebody who doesn’t want to be with you?

I suggest that if you have reached the final stages of the final breakup of a relationship, even though you might feel like you want them back, stop and allow time.
As time passes you will begin to feel better and lighter. The memories will fade. You will be a different person because you have begun to actively engage in your highest pleasures.
And one day you will realize you do not even want them back. You might even say “I am so grateful I left that person else I wouldn’t have been able to do this or that, meet this person or that.”

However the other beautiful thing about Time is the fact that if these two people were meant to be together for a purpose the Universe deems worthy, then by the inner workings of nature life will circle them both together at a time when they would have become ready to take on the challenges of a relationship together.

If you think about going back to your ex because you are in pain and cannot do without them, it is not the right time.

If you think about going back to your ex because the sex was so good and you cannot imagine sex with someone else, it is not the right time.

If you think about going back to your ex because you feel like you invested so much in that relationship and don’t want to let it go cause you cannot imagine building from scratch with someone else, it is not the right time.

If you think about going back to your ex because you need to prove to yourself that you are not a failure and you can make the relationship work, it is not the right time.

The right time to go back to your ex is when you both have consciously become aware of your faults and errors and have both come to a place where, out of Love and respect for each other, you want to Work together to Grow together. You may need to stay separated for a while for this to happen but no matter how long it takes, if you were meant to be together for a good purpose to the universe, then by the inner workings of nature, life will circle you back together so that the workings and contribution from your love together can be felt and experienced through all of time and space.

Know that the universe is alive with the energy that causes creation and expansion. Everything in Nature aims towards life and growth. If it is not growing, it will die. 
When things break we are tempted to want to fix them, to put it back together as it was. It is human nature, our innate capacity to make things better.
However, sometimes, we must observe and try to understand why they broke instead of rushing in to fix it.
Speaking of relationships now, there are always so many lessons to learn whether the relationship is intact or broken. Give it time, learn the lessons inherent for you and live into your best self while time does it’s work through you and for you. And if you were meant to be together again, everything in the universe will conspire to circle you both back together. Trust Your Process. Go live your amazing life!

This is What Squirting Looks like (Real Footage)

Ever since I announced my short Ebook guide on “HOW TO SQUIRT” I have been receiving messages almost daily on Instagram from women who want to learn about Squirting. I didn’t think that many women cared about expanding upon and truly understanding themselves as divine sexual beings!

It is interesting to see that a lot of women are determined to open up, to will themselves free of the subconscious programming of guilt and shame about sex in the society especially on Women.

In my Ebook Guide “HOW TO SQUIRT”, I shared with you that squirting is not so much about the Orgasm, or even Sex at all (because you do not have to have Sex to squirt) but it is really about embodying your unique feminine flavor and being in touch with your sexuality as a woman. Because for you to Squirt at all, you must be able to allow yourself feel deeply, and FEELING is the first step towards becoming and embodying your divine feminine self.


A lot of women are going through emotional traumas that have stemmed from early childhood sexual abuse, rape, abusive relations etc and many of these young women have locked themselves up in a shell of distrust, and emotional blockages of all kinds has dulled the color of their vibrancy as women. This in turn causes them to block their creative centers which is where the sexuality is housed in your energetic body. And if a woman has locked down her ability to feel, to be sensual, sexual, she has ultimately locked down her ability to Create effectively and bring her vital contributions to the world.

SQUIRTING helped me move past my inhibitions. It made me become more aware of the incredible things I could feel as a woman, beyond sex. Above all it is always an extremely empowering and liberating experience. Beyond just an orgasm, Squirting can become the bridge or gateway to your most empowered sensual self as a woman.

Today, To answer the many questions of what Squirting looks like when it happens, and trying my best to keep it R16 as possible,  I am sharing with you a real footage from my intense Squirting orgasm from a few days ago.

UuurgGH! I honestly had no intentions of Squirting. I was only practicing a new technique I stumbled upon on Energetic Sex and next thing you know, I was swept up in this blast of Euphoric abandon. There I was by myself, completely entranced in my powerful, growing sexual energy and then Boom! I was squirting all over the place. Needless to say, It was the most incredible night and I slept oh so wonderfully! AaaarggH!

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Energetic Sex : What You should Know, First.

Can you imagine intense pleasurable Sex without any form of contact whatsoever let alone penetration? If you can, then I commend you for exploring the many layers of the human species. If you cannot even imagine how mind-blowing sex can occur without two or more people joining bodies, touching and getting tangled in a physical mess, then I guess what I am about to share with you will blow your Mind. Maybe just a little.

To continue reading this post is also to temporarily discard your old ideas or beliefs about what sex should be or shouldn’t be. You also must understand that as with all things there are many perspectives as there are varying levels of consciousness observing matter.

It is almost impossible to think about Sex and not see the visual image of two people locked in and cojoined by the genitals. I mean that’s what sex is right? There has to be a joining of the two.
But what if I told you, that your best sex yet might possibly be one where there was little or no physical touch, no penetration whatsoever and even without the need for a partner?
Considering that Sex itself is beyond physical, this concept of Energetic Sex draws your attention towards the other aspects of Sex which really do get ignored because most people have been conditioned to think of and engage in Sex merely as a Physical act.
The idea is so simple and it definitely helps us focus on more important aspects of sex.
To have Energetic Sex with someone, or even by yourself, is to harness your Sexual energy in a more Empowering, Liberating and energizing way.
With Energetic sex, you not only feel all the pleasures that are possible with Physical sex, you also experience Heightened and unseen worlds of euphoric delight when you are swept up into the spiritual and unseen aspects of the Sexual Energy field.

What you will be doing simply is working with your sexual energy by “feeling” yourself into it and in that way strengthen and expand your sexual desire.
The reason for this is to create so much desire, passion, drive, mojo, vim, whatever you want to call it, by feeling and enjoying the sexual energy. You are going to be intensifying the feeling withing you and from moment to moment become even more aroused.
As your desire increases through this process , you will begin to feel more and more in need of physical sex. But know that this is not the purpose of Energetic Sex.

The main purpose of Energetic Sex is to help position you as a Sexual Energy alchemist. You are not having energetic sex as a way to avoid physical sex and bring your physical body to orgasm. No. This is not about that.
Instead you are going to Energetically intensify your desire, expand it like a ball of energy within you becoming bigger and bigger, and then retain the Energy within you to be used for your Creative work and Life’s Task.

Like I mentioned earlier, energetic sex can even feel more intense for you than Physical Sex and because you are not going to be dissipating your Powerful sexual energy by letting it out through Orgasms, you will be able to retain the energy for your Creative and Life work.
It is all about you enjoying the pulsing of this energy within you without needing to let it out or indulge in the traditional methods of having sex.

Know that your Sexual energy is your Life force. It is not called the ‘sex-drive’ for no reason.
It is your actual creating energy. To have sex mindlessly for the sake of momentarily fleeting pleasure is to misuse your energy and make waste of your Creating potential.
Energetic Sex is your gateway to finally sitting with the Energy, understanding it, working with and wielding its powers like the Alchemist that you really are.
You literally can increase and generate a force and drive for your Life by harnessing your sexual energy and transmuting it.

The first thing to know about Energetic Sex is : “It is not about having Sex, it is about becoming one with the Energy you call your Sexual Energy. Your Life force.

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Are you IN LOVE? Or is it the SEX?

Two days ago in this Post, I shared with you how I had fallen very sick and had to do a bed rest, watching if my Body would heal itself without Medical care. Well the good news is in! It did! And boy am I so excited to share all the things I did with you.
But not in this post today. 


Today I want to dive into something really different, a little sensitive and I ask that you be patient with me, read through my thoughts and as always please share your own ideas in comments. 
Now let’s jump into our conversation for today. 
Are you really in love or is the sex keeping you bound?


If the only time you feel connected to your partner is when you are having sex with him, then there might be a deeper problem that you are refusing to address. 

And oftentimes it has nothing to do with him, but more to do with you.
How do you feel about yourself? Have you thought about this? Is it possible that a large part of you has become very small that you no longer demand better for yourself and just seem to ride with whatever waves pour in? 

Many women have found themselves stuck in relationships that once upon a time started really well, with great affection, deep-meaningful conversations, and what could have possibly been an enviable friendship. But as time passed, they found less and less satisfaction from the relationship, needing more affection or more thoughtful interactions but never getting it, and instead only getting and settling for more and more sex with quickly fleeting satisfaction.Does this sound like you?

Are you currently in a relationship where you feel like the sex is all you have? Maybe you are right.
And if this is the case then you might want to begin to consider the underlying reasons why you are still in that relationship.

We all know that the best relationships are those that thrive on friendship, mutual respect, engaging and meaningful conversation, support of one and another and mutual accountability among other values. If most of these is missing in your current relationship with your partner it is most likely because your own personal values are warped, distorted, out of place.


                                   UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
This can result from a lack of self esteem, a deep-seated limiting belief of lack of self worth and general lack of love and respect for yourself.
You must begin to address what it is about yourself that you are currently not happy about and notice how you are using sex to compensate for that. 
Many women equate Sex with Love and this misconception is one that has caused a lot of emotional trauma in many relationships today.
While sex is largely an emotional experience for women, it really can be less emotional for men and more physical. 
So for the most part you may be compensating with sex because you have wrongly believed that this equates to love on his part and the truth is, it doesn’t.
What you may be seeking is affection or attention from another person, love as we call it on the surface level. 
And if you are seeking love, albeit desperately, if it has become a sort of mask to hide the real wounds that are eating you up, then you may never end up with the healthy kind of love that you deserve. If you can trust yourself enough to go through the temporary pain that will result from breaking away for long enough to heal yourself, then you just may be able to get yourself into the right path in love in good time.
Your job at this point is to stare at yourself long and hard in the mirror and ask yourself what you’ll rather have.
How would you want a man to treat you? How would you want your ideal relationship to be?
What would have to happen everyday in your relationship asides sex?
These quick questions will help you uncover all the parts of your present relationship that do not serve your highest good and perhaps help you make the life changing decision to let go.
And in letting go, you must begin to place yourself and your well-being as your own priority. 
Know that you are capable of loving yourself, of giving yourself enough attention to sustain you and overflow. Accept that you are wonderful, and beautiful and just so perfect in every way.  

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Begin to take time out to care for yourself, get your hair done for yourself, put on some makeup for yourself, begin to put time to working out and exercising for yourself, buy yourself a few new clothes and take a few hot photos of you.
And do all the wonderful creative things that you have in your heart to do. As time goes by you will begin to like the new you better and you will begin to set some new standards in love for yourself. The more you like yourself, the better you feel, and the better the Love/Relationship you will attract in the future. You will also find yourself less dependent on others and more dependent on yourself as you begin to take more and more responsibility for your own happiness. 

I hope this helps create clarity for you and you come off feeling better about you, and ready to be accountable to you.