Energetic Sex : What You should Know, First.

Can you imagine intense pleasurable Sex without any form of contact whatsoever let alone penetration? If you can, then I commend you for exploring the many layers of the human species. If you cannot even imagine how mind-blowing sex can occur without two or more people joining bodies, touching and getting tangled in a physical mess, then I guess what I am about to share with you will blow your Mind. Maybe just a little.

To continue reading this post is also to temporarily discard your old ideas or beliefs about what sex should be or shouldn’t be. You also must understand that as with all things there are many perspectives as there are varying levels of consciousness observing matter.

It is almost impossible to think about Sex and not see the visual image of two people locked in and cojoined by the genitals. I mean that’s what sex is right? There has to be a joining of the two.
But what if I told you, that your best sex yet might possibly be one where there was little or no physical touch, no penetration whatsoever and even without the need for a partner?
Considering that Sex itself is beyond physical, this concept of Energetic Sex draws your attention towards the other aspects of Sex which really do get ignored because most people have been conditioned to think of and engage in Sex merely as a Physical act.
The idea is so simple and it definitely helps us focus on more important aspects of sex.
To have Energetic Sex with someone, or even by yourself, is to harness your Sexual energy in a more Empowering, Liberating and energizing way.
With Energetic sex, you not only feel all the pleasures that are possible with Physical sex, you also experience Heightened and unseen worlds of euphoric delight when you are swept up into the spiritual and unseen aspects of the Sexual Energy field.

What you will be doing simply is working with your sexual energy by “feeling” yourself into it and in that way strengthen and expand your sexual desire.
The reason for this is to create so much desire, passion, drive, mojo, vim, whatever you want to call it, by feeling and enjoying the sexual energy. You are going to be intensifying the feeling withing you and from moment to moment become even more aroused.
As your desire increases through this process , you will begin to feel more and more in need of physical sex. But know that this is not the purpose of Energetic Sex.

The main purpose of Energetic Sex is to help position you as a Sexual Energy alchemist. You are not having energetic sex as a way to avoid physical sex and bring your physical body to orgasm. No. This is not about that.
Instead you are going to Energetically intensify your desire, expand it like a ball of energy within you becoming bigger and bigger, and then retain the Energy within you to be used for your Creative work and Life’s Task.

Like I mentioned earlier, energetic sex can even feel more intense for you than Physical Sex and because you are not going to be dissipating your Powerful sexual energy by letting it out through Orgasms, you will be able to retain the energy for your Creative and Life work.
It is all about you enjoying the pulsing of this energy within you without needing to let it out or indulge in the traditional methods of having sex.

Know that your Sexual energy is your Life force. It is not called the ‘sex-drive’ for no reason.
It is your actual creating energy. To have sex mindlessly for the sake of momentarily fleeting pleasure is to misuse your energy and make waste of your Creating potential.
Energetic Sex is your gateway to finally sitting with the Energy, understanding it, working with and wielding its powers like the Alchemist that you really are.
You literally can increase and generate a force and drive for your Life by harnessing your sexual energy and transmuting it.

The first thing to know about Energetic Sex is : “It is not about having Sex, it is about becoming one with the Energy you call your Sexual Energy. Your Life force.

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Dear Men, Please Keep your SEMEN In. Here’s Why (If You are a Woman, you should read this too)

When you speak with the average man who hasn’t fully come into his sense of power, he will most probably talk about Ejaculation as a way to release stress and tension.

While this may be true in some sense, as it does feel like that in the moment, it isn’t so true for men who have grown more spiritually aligned with their Source and who are living a more expansive life.
For these men, Ejaculation is not the priority. Conservation, Transmutation and realignment of their sexual energy is more important to them. And the reason for this is clear, they have come to understand and embody their Powerful nature through discipline and diligent practice.

There is such a thing as excessive ejaculation, even though many men will not accept that this is true. And excessive ejaculation will ultimately impede on a man’s true source of aliveness and the capacity for him to do more in his life, to go the extra mile.
Men have been trained to seek the release from an ejaculation and enjoy its short-lived pleasures and this training begins in many men before they are even 14.
This continual self training of masturbation creates a sort of habit loop in a man, causing him to follow his desire for pleasure and do whatever he can in the moment for a release. This same mentality is then carried on into a man’s actual sexual relations with women.
Hence many men fall short of actually creating and experiencing a real, deep bond with their woman cause they merely thrust in and out hoping for the reward of an ejaculation. And when ejaculation happens during sex, it signifies the premature end of a sexual experience that has not even began to bud let alone bloom.

Don’t be deceived, Women are not sexually  satisfied simply because you ejaculated. If anything, women are frustrated sexually when a man ejaculates before he has felt and uncovered the many layers of her love offerings.
The female has boundless levels of sexual vitality that you cannot even begin to imagine and while a man is having sex with his body and  head, a woman is doing it with her heart and soul. She sees and feels the endless possibilities of a sexual experience and cannot understand why you wouldn’t want to go beyond the world with her in this ecstatic, euphoric journey that connects you both in divine oneness and bliss.
So no, do not think that your ejaculation counts for everything with women. It doesn’t. It is only but a tiny piece of the gigantic puzzle that is the sexual experience.

Women have just learned to accept that you ejaculating is a sign that she did something right, and in that she is content for only a fraction of a moment.
But we all know that men do not need a woman to ejaculate.
Doesn’t this in itself beg you to question the role of the sexual experience in all of this?
If you can ejaculate without sex, then what the hell is sex without the aim of procreating for?

To understand and recognize the power that we are enveloped in during a sexual experience, and to know how to work with this power can be very liberating for anyone.

The best kind of ejaculation will be one without any form of physical release, one in which the mind and body is retrained to carry the energy up through the energy centers and portals of the body instead of out through the genitals.

This is of course no easy task if you have practiced and become adept to the ejaculation that is merely physical.
It will take consistent practice as with any new habit you are trying to imbibe, however it is possible.

The goal is to enjoy the build up of energy and instead of expelling it, send the energy up your spine through every energy center and straight into your brain. In this state, a man can do anything. He can visualize any goal and see a plethora of endless possibilities. He becomes charged and empowered and in turn empowers his woman.
This is what Napoleon Hill refers to as Sexual energy transmutation in his best seller “Think and Grow Rich.

The true ejaculation that rejuvenates and energizes a person is an energetic occurrence. It happens within the body, throughout all energy centers of a person. When you expel the energy you lose the vital life force that could otherwise have been transmuted up the spine to create new worlds of endless possibilities within the consciousness of your being.

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